最近バタバタしていて、あまりゆっくり遊んであげていないなあ、と思っていたので昨日は丸1日娘の日とした。ごねたり、すねたり、ぐずったりした時、何がしたいのかをきちんと聞き出して彼女のしたいことを自分でやりきるのを待つ、というのはとても大事なんだなあ、と思った。けれど、普段はなかなかムズカシイ。。。。でも、彼女にとっての大事なことなんだなあ。ついつい、はやくしてー、って怒鳴ってしまうけれど。
I was bit busy, recently, so I didn't play with my daughter so much. She seems frustrated about it. So I decided yesterday is a day for her, only for her. I realized how important to listen what she really wants to do it and let her to do it until the end. She satisfied about it, and smile proudly about what she has done. I understand the importance, but usually it's too difficult for me, so challenging. "Listening and waiting" is the key point. There's nothing good to yell her "hurry up!!" thousand times. I KNOW it and many moms as well, I guess. but sometimes I can't stop myself.....As she grows, I have to grow, mainly mentally, too. It's one of the greatest points to live with children, I believe.
